Ever Wonder Why Trades goes against you?

Crypto volatility could either make or break you they say, I used to feel this is just a saying but recently I understood what it means. I spend time reading the chart but once I decide to enter the market then red but if I decide to delay entry then I regret it. That eagerness to make your first positive trade won't give me a chance to fully practice what I studied so I deviated from futures trading to staking on some platforms to earn APR or LST. BGBSol, BNSol to name a few but I mostly prefer BGBsol due to the high Apr but that didn't quench my hunger to make that first green trade.

I am always told to have a strategy that works for me and a good risk management plan so I decided once my trade is in either +/- 10% then I am good but I am mostly hitting SL which is making my bad trade to outweigh my good trades. This is discouraging but I don't expect to get it easy for now as I am still trying to understand the market and how will I learn trading when I don't practice. I always believe in no pain no gain but I need to start seeing my efforts or I am doing something wrong? How do you start you journey in this industry?